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BDSM Expert & Conscious Kink Coach.

Explore your fetishes and sensual desires, expand your potential for pleasure, bliss & tantric mindfulness. Sexual taboos hold the key to the evolution of human consciousness. Embracing our dark desires gives us permission to really live from our authentic self. Experiencing surrender in a safe controlled environment teaches us how to let go and relax emotionally, and these lessons spread out into our daily lives.  

Ms. Mercury has 20 years experience with BDSM & Fetish, psychology & neuroscience academic qualifications, and a keen interest in personal development. She teaches Conscious Kink to beginners or experienced explorers, in group workshops or private sessions.

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 The Kink Lab

Domination and submission is an energy exchange, a power exchange, and a dance where power is the rhythm. In many partner dances, like tango or salsa, one partner surrenders, while the other leads. And as with any skill, ease and grace come from learning the foundations, the structure, and the styles.

In this play lab (not “work”-“shop”), you will learn the basic guiding principles within BDSM, the skills, and the attitude behind the play. From these building blocks, you will be able to continue your exploration, expanding your knowledge at your own pace to find your unique style. Couples or singles are welcome. Single participants will be paired up and take turns in leading and surrendering. This is a laboratory of touch, where we will explore body sensations and sensuality with an open mind. Kink is not “FORE-play”, it is simply played. It CAN but does not HAVE to lead to erotic arousal. You can go as far as it is comfortable for you.

Among the topics to be covered are:

– Safety Parameters

– Negotiations & establishing boundaries

– Dominant and submissive archetypes: Roleplays

– Fetishes & Kinky games: The BDSM “Menu”

– Body awareness & Presence

– Aftercare; the closure of the play

– Basic BDSM techniques, including sensation & texture play, spanking & other manual play, and impact (soft and rigid).

Prerequisites: This is an entry-level event. There are no prerequisites to participating, except an open mind and good manners. We welcome newbies and kink veterans, all genders and sexual orientations. 

What to bring & wear:

– An open mind

– Bottle of water

– If you have a whip/crop/flogger or another kinky toy, bring it (even if you are still unsure how to use it)!

– If you don’t own any toys yet, there will be some available for practicing at the workshop and for sale.

– Any questions you may have about BDSM & fetish.

– Wear clothes in which you feel comfortable, confident, and sensual. This is not a dress code. It’s to inspire your mindset for the class.

– Swimwear or undergarments*

*As this is an introductory class, nudity will not be permitted. However, for the experiential part, stripping down to bra and underpants is encouraged for better skin contact. You may bring swimwear if that feels more comfortable for you.

Welcome to The Synergy Temple - Where Diverse Energies Unite

After so many workshops, exercises and lectures, in this event you will have a chance to integrate it all and test out your fresh skills. Much like a gym with different cross-training stations, the Synergy Temple will have 4 separate stations, namely: Magic Massage, Cuddle Corner, Sensation Surrender & Impact Zone. Each station will be led by one facilitator and one assistant, so you can ask questions, get tips, and support to really go deep and practice your skills. In the middle of the room, we will have a dance floor with sensual tunes, so you can move to get into your raw energy and connect with others before choosing which stations to explore together. We will have a team of Temple holders & assistants for support, counseling or just presence, so you can feel safe to venture into new territories of sensuality and intimacy. 

Join us & Synergise!

What to wear: 

Sensual, comfortable clothes. Lingerie, underwear or swimwear, whatever you feel safe and comfortable wearing if you want to strip off for better skin connection. There is NO full nudity at the temple, but going topless is allowed. 

What to bring for cleanliness: 

A large towel or sarong for each participant to lie on

Extra towel for wiping yourself - Remember it will get HOT and steamy! 

If you know you squirt from energy or impact play, bring a mattress pad(s). 

Non-glass bottle of water

Your own bottle of massage oil 

*Sensation play toys and Impact play toys will be provided for the stations, but you can always bring your favorites or any new ones to learn how to use it.